well anon i hope you see this, because you wouldnt know the first thing about emily and rhyses relationship!! all you see is the top, you wouldnt have any idea how deep their love goes and the conflict and everything that they have to battle through to make their relationship last as long as it has and to keep it going as strong as it is. Iv seen Emily and Rhys together and i am sooo envious of their love for each other. i like how they dont feel the need to be eating each others faces off in public and show over affection they just show their true love. and who is to say that what they say to each other isnt natural.. that what they say they dont have to think about, who says what they say to each other is "conscious" ... seriously just stop being a coward and get of anonymous. i love emily :)
oh, claire. thank you so much. your support means so much <3 anonymous, you wouldn’t know the first thing about our love so stop being a coward. if you seem to have issues with it, why don’t you talk to me about it in private, since you obviously know me in person? i’d love to know who you are so you can stop being such a rude coward. i love rhys, and i’m sorry but it really doesn’t concern you. we don’t need to prove ourselves to anybody - especially people like you. i mean everything i say to him and it’s not ‘forced’ or ‘exaggerated’; it’s how i feel. so get over yourself.
By flesh i mean the metaphorical core of it. Not what you were thinking. I just don't see the point in buttering your words to the extent that you both do. Again, i may be the weird one. But when i think of an opinion of someone i don't think in that much detail unless im trying to get that much detail. What i'm trying to say to you is that doesn't it bother you that he is thinking consciously about what he's going to say to you? Deny it all you like, anything you have to consciously write isnt 100% truth.
To summarize my issue, why the need to push something that should just work. Say what you want, hard times aren't what break relationships. Drama is the lifeblood of relationships. You watch, one day you'll have to lay off the extravagant declarations for love and get down from your pedestals. Can your relationship last through sweatpants, bed hair and most of all boredom?
now you’re just being rude. you have no reason to judge our relationship. we don’t need to ‘make it work’ because it just does. it’s not something we need to plan, or push. things just work out. i don’t need to remind him that i love him every second of the day. he knows that i do, and i know that he loves me. i’m pretty sure, anonymous, that our love isn’t as much ‘a fantasy’ as what you are describing it to be. our relationship has lasted through an awful lot already, including sweatpants, bed hair and boredom, and believe me when i say that it will last for many years to come.
Feel free to guess. I was just wondering in all honesty do you enjoy the pandering and exaggerated displays of affection that your boyfriend feels the need to do daily. I mean personally i'd just find it annoying. I mean you're forced to perpetuate this idea of the perfect relationship. I mean how exactly do you get down to the flesh of the relationship when you put each other on your pedestals? This isn't an attack on you but a general curiosity i've had for awhile.
i don’t get the privilege of seeing my boyfriend daily, sometimes even weekly. but yes, anonymous. i do enjoy the way he treats me because it makes me feel special and like i’m actually worth something - that my life is worth something. i don’t believe that there’s such thing as a perfect relationship. a relationship means something different to each individual, hence why it means something different to you. a relationship, to me, is the way you interact with another person, and in mine i value trust, honesty and communication, among other things. what do you mean by get down to the ‘flesh’ of the relationship?
what the fuck am i doing with my life? every year i vow to myself that i’m going to be stronger and happier and enjoy my life. i make promises that things are going to get better and i’m actually going to do something with my life, but things always end up this way again. i thought that this year was different because there shouldn’t be any pressures or anything to bring me down. i had all of these plans. i knew what i wanted to do, but now i’m not even so sure. i don’t know what i want to be doing, but i just know that it’s not this. but how are you supposed to fix yourself if you don’t know what the problem is? everybody says that your high school years are the best of your life, and that being a teenager is one of the best times of your life. if that’s true, i don’t want to grow up. things suck right now. i’m not going to make one day of adulthood. i don’t know why i get like this. i just get in these little moods where i can’t stop crying and everything sucks and i just want to crawl under the covers of my bed and not come out for days at a time. i want something out of this fucking pathetic life, but how can i get it if i don’t know what i’m looking for?